Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Dirty Fantasy

Don't be scared, Molly Mormons...you can enjoy this post too! The title comes from an article by Parents Magazine entitled "Dirty Fantasy" from their Nov. 2009 issue. I loved it!
It discusses very real household duty issues.
Here are some highlights I wanted to share with you:

1. According to a recent poll of Parents readers, 61% of moms handle at least 80% of the household and child-care duties.

2. 4% of moms say their husbands do absolutely nothing to help around the house.


3. Does this sound familiar to anyone else?

4. The article encourages splitting these duties 50/50, but I think that seems awfully unrealistic. INSTEAD, here are some suggestions:

*If you think something, say something! He isn't a mind reader!
*Teach your children well. I try to teach Lily to clean-as-you-go.
*Give assignments. Dan has 2 assigned dish nights every week. And he knows they're there, they're not changing, and I can always count on him to get them done.

Rach's Words of Wisdom: (for the Molly's...hee hee)
Talk with your husband about your never-ending mental "to do" list. He probably has no idea! Assess the situation and be motivated to make positive changes TOGETHER!

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